At The Wyndham we host a lot of private events, and this includes weddings. We have heard all sorts of wedding speeches, good and bad. We have heard short and sweet speeches and long ramblings. We have heard comedic speeches which have guests laughing, and sentimental speeches which would bring a tear to your eye. Whether you are the best man or maid of honour, or even a parent of one of the newlyweds, writing an unforgettable wedding speech is key.
How to Write a Wedding Speech Which Leaves a Lasting Impression
- Think About Your Audience – When writing a wedding speech, you need to consider your audience. After all, these are the people who you need to impress. You should write your speech with the tone and style of the wedding in mind. Think about whether it is a formal affair which calls for an equally formal speech, or a more casual and lighthearted day.
- Keep it Short and Sweet – You do not want your wedding speech to be over before it begins, but you also do not want to bore guests by talking and talking and talking. Try to keep your speech clear, concise and focused. Find the balance between including all your stories and points, while avoiding going off on a tangent.
- Choose a Good Opening Line – You need to engage your audience within the first few seconds of your speech, so choose an opening line which grabs everyone’s attention. This will set the tone for the rest of your speech, giving guests an insight into what to expect. You could start with a joke, a quote about marriage or simply by introducing yourself to everyone.
- Share Stories About the Happy Couple – There is one thing which everyone has in common at a wedding – knowing the happy couple. It is always a good idea to include your experiences with and memories of the couple, as this gives the speech a personal touch, ensuring it feels authentic and unique. Share a heartfelt moment about when they first met or a funny story about their road to marriage.
- Do not Forget to Say Thank You – Make sure to take a moment to thank the couple for inviting you to be a part of their special day, and thank anyone involved in organising the big day. A lot of planning goes into a wedding, and your speech is the perfect time to give everyone recognition for their hard work.
- Always End on a High – When the time comes to wrap up your wedding speech, make sure to end on a high. Finish your speech with something memorable, such as a toast to the happy couple. Not only does ending on a high note ensure everyone remembers your speech positively, but it also sets the tone for everything to come.
Writing a wedding speech which is unforgettable for the right reasons requires thought, planning and creativity but, by following our top tips, you can write a speech everyone is sure to love.
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